If you are considering parenting, but you are thinking you just are not ready, we have some great news to share with you… Very few people ever feel ready to parent. Every woman on the planet has had a flood of emotions when finding out they are pregnant.
Married or single, planned or not, parenting has a unique set of opportunities and challenges. Even in the most idealistic of situations, the thought of parenting can be overwhelming. So first, take a deep breath and realize you are not alone, and you are not the first person feeling what you are feeling.
We hope to bring some peace of mind and some truths to common myths. We are here to provide you with the general support and social services you may need as you face this unexpected pregnancy.
Myth 1: Parenting must look a certain way.
Fact: First, there is no one type of family today. There are many family units and even more styles of parenting. There is much to explore as you consider your next steps dealing with an unplanned pregnancy.
Myth 2: Pregnancy should be planned.
Fact: Did you know 50% of all pregnancies in the United States are unplanned? There is more understanding about this topic now. In many cases, people view an unplanned pregnancy less negatively than before. The focus has shifted towards equipping women with resources to make decisions that are right for them.
Everyone needs to find a strong support system. This is especially true for someone who will be a single parent. Everyone should not do this alone. Even the strongest of women will experience a moment when they will need to reach out for help.
As you make your birth plan, make a list of people, places, and resources available to you as you embrace single parenting. If you do not know where to start, Portico’s classes, services, and resources can help. Whatever your situation is, parenting and family styles are unique to each person. You will be able to find many resources at Portico as you embark on this adventure of parenting.
We realize this pregnancy is likely unexpected, but you can do it. For more information on our parenting classes, call Portico at (615) 893-0228.
